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Got a TOT? You're not alone! Dare to share your story at the TOT Blog with other TOT tamers in the making, while Lynn helps you cope with difficult or childish bosses. Whether it's career advancement during tough times, understanding corporate culture, office politics, how to humanize your workplace™ or managing up, Lynn can help. Post a comment with your TOT story and/or Q, and she'll try her best to address it in a blog or column. Lynn is the founder of the online community forum, TameYourTOT.com, and author of the best-selling career and management book, Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant™ (TOT): How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job (John Wiley & Sons). Order here: Amazon, Barnes & Noble.

How to Look for a Job While You’re Pregnant

23August 2016

You’re a professional woman job-hunting while pregnant. Your pregnancy may not seem like the ideal time to job search, but you can turn that thought around and make your new job perfect for you, baby and your new boss. Take the time to plan out your strategy. Carefully consider the type of schedule you want […]

Making the Best First Impression

11August 2016

You only get one chance to make a first impression – is a comment I made recently in Business Insider. First impressions count with your interviewer, new boss and co-workers. How you conduct yourself in the first few minutes – or even seconds — of meeting someone can have a profound impact. And when you’re […]

How to Tell Your Boss You’re Pregnant

26June 2016

8 ways to Stay Empowered You’ve just been delivered the good news and want to tell everyone – I’M HAVING A BABY! But before you jump ahead, consider a successful strategy that not only counters any concerns among your boss or colleagues – but also creates the right mindset for you. That will boost your confidence, performance and overall […]

Make Your Words Count

15June 2016

Language is a living thing. New words are coined to reflect new realities, approaches and attitudes. People are fast to embrace new snappy verbiage—not only to express themselves better —but also because it seems to promise instant “coolness.” Unfortunately, overuse can turn many “right-on-the-money” phrases into annoying conversation litter—as you can see in this article […]

Assertive or Aggressive: How Do You Draw the Line?

9May 2016

Drawing the line between assertiveness and aggressiveness is always a difficult proposition. While the former is often admired, even if sometimes begrudgingly, the latter is usually loathed, as it basically turns the person into a Terrible Office Tyrant. So when the situation requires taking a stand, you may second-guess yourself: “Will I step over the […]